Tanisha Deka’s new single confesses that when it comes to love, "i'll never learn"

Up-and-coming singer-songwriter Tanisha Deka has released her latest indie pop single "i'll never learn," out on all streaming platforms today, September 26th. The track explores the painful psychology of toxic attachment, with powerful lyrics like "I'd rather hate myself than not love you" that cut straight to the core of unhealthy relationship dynamics.

Tanisha is a 20-year-old singer-songwriter based in Seattle, WA, blending soft indie folk, acoustic pop, and intimate storytelling. With delicate guitar work, gentle harmonies, and emotionally honest lyrics, her music explores themes of connection, longing, and vulnerability. Tanisha’s sound has drawn comparisons to Lizzy McAlpine, Gracie Abrams, and Leith Ross, while still carrying a voice and style uniquely her own – tender and quietly powerful. Rooted in personal reflection and a love for honesty and simplicity, her songs feel like a conversation with someone you trust.

“i’ll never learn” blends acoustic guitar with subtle electronic elements and has been connecting deeply with audiences on Tanisha’s social media, as listeners resonate with her raw honesty and breaking the shame on dealing with difficult emotions.

This is just the start for Tanisha, whose ethereal vocals and thought-provoking poeticism has struck a chord with us here at TMSM. We resonate deeply with the captivating lyrics, 'I have enough self control for both of us' and 'you give me nothing but pain, you give me all that I asked you for' - it sums up perfectly the feeling of knowing that you shouldn’t love somebody because they are wrong for you, but you can’t help going back to them.

We can’t wait to hear what is next from Tanisha and follow her on her journey.

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